Cancer research is an important field because many individuals are impacted by this disease every year, bou do not need to be directly involved with cancer research to make a difference in the lives of those with cancer. Several students from my university have worked with children with cancer in campus during the summer. They were able to touch the lives of these children and make a difference. Hope is a strong medicine and can keep people fighting.
Lex is a student I talked to about his experience working with children with cancer and their families. The camp Lex worked at focused on helping the children who had the cancer, as well as their siblings. Sometimes families become very focused on a single member when tragedy such as cancer strikes. It can be challenging for the siblings of the person diagnosed to no grow to resent the lack of attention they receive.
Lex worked at a sleep-away camp with a family for a week. He worked with a boy with cancer for half of the, then for the other half he worked with the brother.
The child with cancer was not allowed to be submerged in water because of his throat cancer. This child loved the water. Lex was able to give the child a fun experience in the water by being adaptable and working with the family and staff to develop fun activities without going completely in the water: bumper boats, big slip ‘n’ slides, and water basketball on Lex’s shoulders, for example.
The second half of the week, Lex worked with this child’s brother. Initially, the boy was frustrated with Lex, having seen Lex and his brother having fun together. He would say things like “Why are you spending time with me when I know you would rather be with ____?” Lex showed that he could have fun with both brothers and found a way to connect with the child. By the end of the week, the whole family saw Lex as a member of their family, and the two brothers came together and hugged.
Through the many challenges facing cancer research and treatments, one method has remained: kindness. Sometimes all it takes is a little kindness to make a difference in someone’s life. Everyone can make a difference if they are willing to take the initiative to help.